“I can’t see the gas station. Which way do I turn?” said Travis as we exited in Omaha, Nebraska. The fog was thick!!! We couldn’t see more than 20 yards in front of us. We’d rather have fog than freezing rain, though. We stayed in Lincoln, Nebraska, for an extra night due to Des Moines’ icy forecast. Better safe than sorry.
Our extra night in Nebraska was well worth the stay. In fact, our entire weekend was fabulous! We arrived Friday within 3 minutes of Amy, Elijah, and Aleni Rogers pulling into their driveway after school. Let the fun begin!!! Nine-year-old Aleni is a popular girl to our family. "I get to sit by Aleni!" all three of our youngest children called in unison in hopes of sitting on the recliner with her. Elijah and Taite took the couch while we all drove the Flyer to the YMCA to meet “The Other Wilson’s.” The Other Wilson’s are one of our favorite families. Like Travis, Brian is a Family Heritage director. He and his wife Amanda have been our friends for more than a decade. Their family has grown from no kids or dogs to six girls and two dogs in less than 6 years. (Wish I had a pic of them to add. Beautiful family.)
The kids swam and played at the Y. Some of the big kids, including Brian, played a pseudo-volleybal game working to keep the ball out of the water while counting the hits/bumps. Taite was fired up to be part of the record-holding team at 30 hits.
We all parted ways to have dinner then the Other Wilson’s re-joined us at the Rogers’ home. The kids ran and played while the adults laughed and talked. Elijah, the Rogers’ 7-year-old son, recently brought home some math worksheets from school. He was excited to have the kids over to play 'school.' Of course our kids, who have now done school on a Saturday, raised an eyebrow at the thought of Friday night school. Usually Calla plays the teacher, but that night 10-year-old Hailey Wilson announced herself as the teacher, grabbed her whip, and told everyone to put their heads down on their desks. Thankfully nobody got hurt and all the kids had a grand old time playing together. Everyone crashed at bedtime, exhausted and full from eating the delicious meal Amy had prepared.
The Rogers are another of our favorite families. Curtis, too, is a director in the insurance business. (There are only 35 directors for Family Heritage in the United States. Kind of fun to have three of them in the same room.) They enjoy sharing ideas and Curtis is a great Christian mentor. Amy has become a dear friend of mine. She has a strong listening ear and is great at sharing ideas. We spent time with their family while we were in Tucson, Arizona, just a few weeks ago, then again in Vegas. We got to see them this weekend, and they hosted their business group’s new year party so we spent time with a few of our other Nebraska and western Iowa friends as well. (Again, wishing I had done a better job of taking pictures this time. ;-))
“The word is ‘cute,’” said Lena Beelek as she dropped her green Disney Apples to Apples card in the middle of the living room floor. Eleven of us checked the red cards in our hand in hopes of laying the perfect card for our judge.
“Oh! Oh! Who has the card that says ‘Hailey Wilson’???!!! That will be the winner!!!” exclaims Hailey.
“The word is ‘exciting,’” said Lincoln. I knew which one would be the winner. There were a lot of great choices - Brian Wilson put down Lightning McQueen. Usually you can’t go wrong with any Cars character...unless ‘Underwear’ is one of the choices. Sometimes Lincoln just walks around saying ‘underwear.' He might yell it out in the middle of a conversation. You just never know about him. Lincoln chose my 'Underwear' card as the winner and the game continued.
Besides being fun and funny, another great thing about the Rogers and the Wilson’s is they are families walking toward Christ. We’ve been able to spend time with so many people who encourage and lead our family in a faith journey. These two families are no exception. We joined the Rogers’ for their church service and class Sunday morning. It was like God was holding me by the shoulders, shaking me and saying “Wake up!!! I’m trying to tell you something!!” Ephesians 3:20 was the sermon topic for us two weeks in a row now - and the previous week we were in Reno, Nevada!
Ephesians 3:20 says, “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.” Boy have we experienced that on this trip! How funny to think that what I wanted for our jobs, school, lives - which sounded so good when I was drumming it up on my own - pales in comparison to how He’s blessed us. And all we had to do was say yes and be obedient. If Ephesians 3:20 is His message to us, I can’t even imagine what He might have in store for us these next 11 months! January has been pretty spectacular!
The Sunday school class focused on God’s money loaned to us. It was just as impactful as the service. What was impactful for the kids was all the falls they took on the ice later in the day as we once again went ice skating - this time at the Ice Box in Lincoln, Nebraska. Taite counted himself falling only 6 times. He’s getting better! Lincoln was really good on skates (for a four-year-old who’s never been on them). Once open skating was over we all stepped off the rink to watch the zamboni resurface the ice. Lincoln was mesmerized. I’ve tried to avoid hockey as a sport for my children. The Ice Box experience did not help.
One thing Lincoln doesn’t avoid is food. The boy can eat! Due to poor weather conditions in both Lincoln and Des Moines we opted to accept the Rogers‘ invitation to stay another night. For dinner Travis made two ground almond and mozzerella crusted pizzas. (We’ve really gotten into this no-wheat thing.) Amy made fondue - a first experience for our kids. We all loved it - even the kids enjoyed the pizza. The cheese fondue was super fun. Watching the kids eat the chocolate fondue was like watching ants gather on a slice of watermelon. Lincoln announced he was not going to let there be left overs. “I’m never gonna be full. I’m gonna eat all the strawberries and bananas and cuties and chocolate.” True to his word he finished every last drop that the other nine of us couldn’t even think about since we were so full.
Dinner, dishes, baths, stories, and bedtime. Early to bed Sunday night for everyone. Monday morning came fast. It was tough to roll everyone out of bed - Parker and Calla slept until we woke them at 9:15! We drove the seven hours home in thick fog - at times only seeing 50 yards in front of us. But we made it! Ferrari-driver Travis had no problems.
One of the things we have incorporated for our family’s health is seeing our incredible chiropractor, Dr. Kuntz. We go to him for most things health-related. We have missed him dearly. We can’t just go to any chiropractor because very few of them can do what he does. After driving 5,850 miles around the country we were all in desperate need of an adjustment. We didn’t even drive home. We went to see Dr. Kuntz first. We took up two spaces in the parking lot and walked in disheveled - Lincoln in two mismatched right-footed shoes, Parker in pajamas and no shoes, and Calla in pajamas. We just happened to run into my sister there, Auntie Mimi. The kids were fired up!!!
Mindy (aka Auntie Mimi) went to her house to change and load KC into her car after leaving the chiropractor. Little did she know that she would wind up helping us unload the RV when she got to our house to drop off KC. But thanks to her and my two best helpers, Calla and Taite, Travis and I unloaded the RV in less than an hour. My kitchen, dining room, and pretty much every other room in the house are disasters, but the RV is unloaded and ready to go to Brambilla’s RV sales and service for an oil change and other maintenance work.
“Taite! Where are you? I need your help,” I hollered up the stairs.
“I’m exploring,” responded Taite. After being gone for six weeks you’d probably have to explore to grasp your surroundings. KC spent 20 minutes sniffing the yard to be reminded of where he was. Parker started crying in the middle of the night. I awoke to her cries, but it took me a minute to get out of bed. I had no idea where I was, or how to get to Parker. I guess I should have done a little more exploring before bedtime as well.
Our family has talked a bit about the things we learned on this RV trip. We’ll take the weekend to lament over them. The kids will be with Grammy (my mom). Both parties are mutually excited for the weekend. Travis and I head to Orlando. He’s joining me for a MonaVie event. Sunday we return. We’ll take a deep breath and plan to enjoy our time in Minnesota for the coming months.
P.S. The professional pictures of my kids are taken by someone Linda hired in Grove, Oklahoma. Ummm...I'm a little biased, but aren't our children so stinkin' cute!?!?